Q&A Sunday: Do You Really Need Two Nightstands?

Guest User February 28, 2021

I’ve heard that you’re supposed to have two nightstands. Is this always necessary? Is it ok to just have one?

In general for adults, it’s helpful two have two nightstands, one on each side of the bed. They don’t have to match, but ideally, they should be similar in size. In a mundane way, this creates more balance between you and your partner. If you’re single, it creates space to invite in a partner.

A lot of people who are single may only have one nightstand because they don’t currently need a second one. However, it’s helpful to actually create the space for the partner you do want to invite by accommodating them even before they arrive in your life. You can do this by having a nightstand for them. The same goes for pillows as well—you may only need one pillow at the moment, but by creating your bedroom as if you’re already in a partnership, you’re making your space more inviting, both energetically and physically, to your future partner.

You might also be in a situation where you are not looking for a relationship. If you’re really working on cultivating yourself and you intentionally don’t want to make space for someone right now, that’s completely ok and admirable. If you don’t want a partner, that’s your decision to make.

However, I wouldn’t recommend having only one nightstand long-term. Not only do nightstands represent you and your current or future partner, they can also represent the masculine and feminine sides of yourself. Regardless of whether we have a partner or not, there’s a duality within us that we’re always working to balance: feminine and masculine, light and dark, yin and yang. Over time, having only one nightstand may create an imbalance in these two sides of yourself.

I hope that helps! If you have more questions about your specific situation, I encourage you to work with a consultant or join an upcoming Practical Feng Shui workshop!

by Anjie Cho

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Rats Are Lucky During The Year Of The Ox In Chinese Astrology — Here's Why

Guest User February 24, 2021

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We're fresh off the Lunar New Year, which happened last Friday, February 12. In Chinese culture, this is a sacred time of year to attract prosperity and ward off bad luck. Now that we're in the Year of the Ox, one lucky symbol to note is the Rat. Here, author and feng shui expert Anjie Cho explains why this is the case and how to harness the Rat's abundant energy in the year to come.

Why is the Rat lucky this year?

According to Cho, to understand why the Rat is a lucky symbol in Chinese astrology, you need to know the story of the Great Race.

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Q&A Sunday: Good Luck Charms for the Year of the Ox

Guest User February 21, 2021

Is there anything you recommend to bring good luck in the year of the Ox?

Happy Lunar New Year! This is a great question, and I do have a recommendation for you!

Each year is associated with one of a particular Chinese zodiac animal, and in 2021 we’ve just entered the year of the Ox. Each of the zodiac animals has a different type of relationship to the Ox, and understanding how your animal relates to the Ox can give you an idea of what kind of energy you can expect this year.

One relationship that’s particularly significant to note is the Ox and the Rat - they are best friends in the Chinese zodiac, meaning it’s an auspicious year for anyone born in the year of the Rat.

In the school of feng shui that I practice, BTB, it’s considered good luck to carry around a 3D figurine of a Rat this year, since the Rat is the best friend of the Ox. We’re not trying to take a direct route here by carrying around a charm of the Ox itself, but rather using subtlety to sway the energy of the year in your favor. Last year was the year of the Rat, which means it was good luck to carry a 3D Ox figurine in 2020.

I created a Rat keychain charm for 2021, because I wanted an easy way for people to be able to carry a Rat figurine with them. I like to keep mine on my keychain, and you can also put it in your purse or wallet. I make them with eco-friendly hemp cord in five different colors, to represent the five elements. I recommend choosing a color based on your intuition and what you’re attracted to, or based on the meaning of that element:

Blue: water element, expansion, kindness, and healing

Yellow: earth element, representing stability and self care

Red: fire element, passion, vitality, inspiration

White: metal element, precision, beauty

Black: water element, knowledge, wisdom

If you still have last year’s Ox charm intact, now is a good time to switch it out. A lot of people ask me what to do with the previous year’s charm once you are done with it. As with any sacred object, you don’t want to just take it and toss it in the trash. It’s offered you support through all of 2020, so you want to treat it as the auspicious and sacred object that it is. You can keep it on your altar, with your other sacred objects, and then use it again eleven years from now when we’re in the year of the Rat again. If you would prefer to discard it, I recommend you do so mindfully. Offer the organic hemp cord to the earth, or burn it. You can recycle the metal as you thank it for the work it has done for you, and offer it with humbleness.

I wish you a happy and lucky year of the Ox! If you have any friends born in the year of the Rat, it’s an especially good time to hang out with them too!

by Anjie Cho