The Tortoise and the Yoke with Lodro Rinzler

Last week I shared part of my interview with writer, teacher and Buddhist practitioner, Lodro Rinzler. And here’s the rest!

AC:  How do you create holistic spaces in your life?

LR: I’m reminded of my teacher Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche, when he said, “the environment is a support or deterrent for everything we do." It’s really that straightforward. When you wake up in the morning and you have clothes everywhere, on the floor, on your chairs. You go to use the bathroom but you end up tripping over your computer. Then you’re cursing…and all of a sudden, your mental state entering that day isn’t going to be one of joy or mindfulness. It’s going to be one of aggression. In that way, I’ve always taken care to create a clean environment free from clutter so that when I wake up, I feel uplifted by entering into it.

What that means for different people is obviously personal to them. For me, it means having art that I personally find uplifting; it means that everything has a proper place. There are basic Buddhist principles for arranging objects in one’s home where you hold certain objects up high and others down low. You could say it’s respecting the natural hierarchy of objects. Generally, in my environment I like to keep it clean and maintain things in the spaces, if that makes sense. 

In my work environment I have reminders of the Buddhist principles I want to cultivate. Right above my computer is an image. It’s a very traditional image reminding me how precious this human life actually is. Whenever I’m distracted or annoyed or whatever, I can look up and see a gentle reminder that I really should be so appreciative for this life that I do have. I think it’s nice to actually have inspiring art images and writing within your environment as constant reminders to wake up to what’s actually going on as opposed to being lost in your head.

What is the image mentioned that you have over your desk?

It’s an image of a tortoise with a yoke around its neck. Within Buddhist canon, this is used as an analogy for the rarity of a precious human life. The image is of a blind tortoise who lives in the ocean. This ocean is as wide as the world. He only comes up once every century, even though he lives many, many thousands of years. It is said that on the surface of this “world ocean,” there is a yoke. A yoke is what one would traditionally place around your ox or yak’s back. That yoke, with its little head-sized hole floats, on the top of this ocean. The odds of this blind tortoise who comes up once every hundred years, poking its head through that yoke… it is said that it is even MORE rare and MORE precious to have a human birth. Our lives are an incredible opportunity that we have. It reminds me that we should make the most of it.

What are some day-to-day meditation tips for my readers, especially for those new to meditation?

I think the most important thing in starting a meditation practice is to be consistent about it. I teach at Shambhala Centers, one could visit www.shambhala.org, to find a meditation center near them. Or just type your city and “Buddhist meditation” into your search engine and see what comes up. Most meditation centers have an open house night where you could learn the basic meditation practice for free or by donation. 

Once you receive the practice, try to do it consistently on your own at home. And there are many places that have regular open sittings where you can go and sit with a group and gain that level of support. As you engage your practice, starting to do it regularly, you don’t have to meditate for long periods of time. But you could pick it up in the same way that you would pick up a new musical instrument. 

If we pick it up once a month and play around with it, often we spend that time figuring out what we learned last time. But if we picked it up 10 minutes a day, it starts to become easier and easier to remember what we’re doing, why we’re doing it, how it goes and we actually get better at it. 

Just 10 minutes a day for 11 days, breeds a sense of consistency into our being. It becomes more habit-like instead of just something that we’re trying out. It’s said that after 11 days of doing anything, it could be stopping smoking, it could be writing, it starts to become a regular habit. Our brain fires differently to actually incorporate it and it feels weird when we don’t do it. 

So, if someone really wanted to launch a meditation practice, I recommend that 10 minutes a day, 11 days in a row. Scientifically they say that after 11 times is when a practice starts to become a habit in our mind. After 21 days, it’s the fully formed habit. But you must be consistent and practice regularly every day.

by Anjie Cho


Lodro Rinzler is a teacher in the Shambhala Buddhist lineage and the author of the best-selling "The Buddha Walks into a Bar...", the award-winning "Walk Like a Buddha" and the brand new "The Buddha Walks into the Office." Over the last decade he has taught numerous workshops at meditation centers and college campuses throughout North America. Lodro’s columns appear regularly on the Huffington Post and Marie Claire online and he is frequently featured in Reality Sandwich, the Interdependence Project, Shambhala Sun, Buddhadharma, and Good Men Project. He is the founder of the Institute for Compassionate Leadership, an authentic leadership training and job placement organization, and lives in Brooklyn with his dog Tillie and his cat Justin Bieber.

For more teachings and articles by Lodro visit www.lodrorinzler.com
Follow Lodro on twitter: @lodrorinzler


Shamatha Meditation with Lodro Rinzler

I met Lodro Rinzler when he was teaching “Meditation in Everyday Life” at the Shambhala Center of New York City. He’s written several books, and his teaching writing is accessible as well as enlightening! I highly recommend his books, especially The Buddha Walks into a Bar.

AC: How would you define meditation and what are some benefits?

LR: The type of meditation that I traditionally practice and teach is known as “shamatha” or calm abiding meditation. There are many different types of meditation out there, but this is one that helps us become more present with what’s going on in our day-to-day life and with what’s going on in our mind. It helps us be more awake and show up for all of our daily activity. By training and being with something as simple as our breathing, we’re learning to be present with all the painful and the pleasurable aspects of our world.

Is shamatha meditation something that you recommend people do on a daily basis?

Yes. Ten minutes of meditation a day can actually be very helpful for people in terms of tuning in to what’s going on with them personally and then allowing them to actually be more present with what’s going on in the rest of their day. It doesn’t take a lot in terms of time investment to actually have meditation start to seep in to your bones and affect your day-to-day life so that you’re actually more present and kind and compassionate with others.

What kind of things does meditation allow you to become more present with?

Well, I think most people start to notice that after meditating for a couple of weeks or couple of months, they are more present with the people that they care about: their family, their friends, their partners as well as their work or wherever they spend a lot of their time. It is a very subtle sort of shift that happens for people where they start to say, “Oh, maybe I’m trying to show up to my life in a way that’s different than I have in the past. It feels like I’m more present for my work meeting. It seems like I’m actually more available when people call on me.” It’s a subtle shift and one that really is quite powerful for people.

Feng Shui also creates subtle shifts. In your new book, "The Buddha Walks into the Office," you talk about meditation and your work. Can you tell us more about that?

Meditation helps us on two fronts. One, how we can be more aware of who we are so that we are more discerning in the livelihood that we create. Two, how we actually start to show up for that livelihood on a day-to-day basis in a way that’s authentic and genuine and in line with the quality that we actually want to cultivate in our experience.

Do you have a special meditation area in your home? Do you recommend that readers create a special meditation area in their homes?

Yes, I have a little corner in my home! I live in New York City, so it’s not like I have a spare bedroom or anything to devote, but I have a corner of my living room. It has a little shrine with an image of my Buddhist teacher, a statue that is an embodiment of wisdom, and Buddhist text that I admire. Many other little reminders also create a special environment and invite me, magnetize me to actually practice regularly. That’s something that I recommend for others.

In the same way that when you get home from work tired and want to go to sleep, you wouldn’t want to create your sleep space each day. Instead, you would want that sleep space already there waiting for you so you can climb into bed and relax. The same can be said for meditation. Most people think, “Oh I’ll take a cushion from my couch or my bed and I’ll throw them down the ground and that will be enough.” But if you have to create your space for meditation every time you’re going to sit down to meditate, it’s a little bit of an obstacle. To have a dedicated meditation space is very important in terms of starting a meditation practice.

Can you elaborate on the objects you have on your shrine in your meditation area?

I recommend that people create an environment that’s inviting to them personally. There are very traditional items that one would put on a shrine if they want to have a Buddhist shrine, for example, offerings of generosity and other virtues that one wants to cultivate. But in its most simplistic sense, you could just put up a candle or two, an incense burner, a statue or an image that will magnetize you to the space. It really should be personal for you.

I would say in a very traditional shrine, you would have an image or two of teachers that you admire. For me, I have a picture of my teacher Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche. I also have a picture of President Obama in a particularly vulnerable moment that I think is very moving. It speaks to those qualities of leadership that I want to develop. The shrine should be not only magnetizing and inviting to you, but also remind you of what you’re actually practicing for. In this case, with the Sakyong are qualities of kindness and presence. With the President Obama’s photo, it’s more vulnerability and strength. It should be personal. Build out a shrine that has meaning that you could then articulate to others, it shouldn’t just be a shrine because it looks pretty or because it might be helpful to have.

Check in next Sunday for the rest of the interview where Lodro talks about his holistic space and the sacredness of human life from the Buddhist perspective!

by Anjie Cho


Lodro Rinzler is a teacher in the Shambhala Buddhist lineage and the author of the best-selling "The Buddha Walks into a Bar...", the award-winning "Walk Like a Buddha" and the brand new "The Buddha Walks into the Office." Over the last decade he has taught numerous workshops at meditation centers and college campuses throughout North America. Lodro’s columns appear regularly on the Huffington Post and Marie Claire online and he is frequently featured in Reality Sandwich, the Interdependence Project, Shambhala Sun, Buddhadharma, and Good Men Project. He is the founder of the Institute for Compassionate Leadership, an authentic leadership training and job placement organization, and lives in Brooklyn with his dog Tillie and his cat Justin Bieber.

For more teachings and articles by Lodro visit www.lodrorinzler.com
Follow Lodro on twitter: @lodrorinzler


6 Brilliant Feng Shui Tips for Kids' Rooms

featured this week on SheKnows, article by Kim Grundy

Find out how to use feng shui in your kids' room to create a cozy space that promotes sleep, happiness and harmony. For example, did you know that having a framed photo of the family in their room provides a calming energy? Or that shy kids would benefit from having a full-length mirror? We chatted with experts on how you can incorporate this ancient science into your own home.

Feng shui is an ancient Chinese system of arranging your environment for a favorable flow of energy, also called qi. From how to arrange furniture to the right colors, follow these easy tips to create an atmosphere of zen in your child's bedroom.

Bed placement

First things first, let’s talk bed placement. Feng shui expert and holistic interior architect Anjie Cho says there is an ideal spot, called the commanding position, to place your child's bed to promote restful sleep.

"It's best to have the bed positioned so that you can see the door with the headboard against the far wall. You don’t want the kid to be directly in front of the door. Instead, across the room, diagonal from the door, is typically the most ideal position," she says.

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by Anjie Cho